Last night Arthur was eliminated from the Biggest Loser. In the process he made a statement that really moved me. I'll have to paraphrase because I can't find a direct quote. In essence he said: I asked God to show me the path and He did. I will go wherever that path leads. If it leads me home that's fine with me.
Jillian had a fit with that. She interpreted it as weakness and capitulation on Arthur's part. I saw it as surrender to the will of God. I'm not condemning Jillian. If you don't believe in God, how can you imagine that submission to Him is anything but weakness. Too many who do believe in God have a hard time giving up control and trusting that He and His power will lead us to happiness faster and more effectively than taking it will. Has Arthur given up his freedom? Of course not. What he has given up is his pride. He is basically saying my way doesn't work, I am willing to try it Thy way.
Part of that trust and willingness comes with having the faith that God has our personal best interest in mind and that He is not in the business of removing our obstacles but rather in helping us overcome them. We are sent here to grow; and resistance, both spiritual, emotional and physical resistance is required to make that happen. Does Arthur get any credit? Of course he does. It is he who is willing to go wherever the path leads. He can give up and take another path at any time. Instead he has chosen to take the path God presents, adversity and all and the results are more than apparent. He's lost an enormous amount of weight and gained so much of confidence and happiness.
In this case surrender simply means: I give up; my way hasn't worked, I'll try it your way for a change. Arthur has not said that only to God, but to his trainers. Even mortals can be our higher power and Bob and Jillian and the others are very adept at being that. Since they cannot keep Bob and Jillian forever, what a blessing it is that they can keep God...if they are willing.
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